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Purposeful Palm series: Talk your way into a greater ingroup
The above tip from the Purposeful Palm outside my office window builds on last week’s tip. Last week it suggested we reflect on the similarities we have with those we work with. As you see, this week it suggests we go one step further. If you haven’t already, please review last week’s post to understand why the Palm’s tip is so transformative.
Purposeful Palm series: Think your way to a greater ingroup
The Purposeful Palm’s advice might seem frivolous, but repositioning how we think of others could very well improve our relationships. It can bring people who aren’t in our ingroup, which consists of those who give us a sense of belonging and we are inclined to support, into it. Research has discovered, for example, that after fans of professional soccer teams reflected on why they enjoyed being fans of a certain team, they were unlikely to stop and help someone they thought was an injured fan of the rival team (it was really an actor wearing a rival team’s jersey). Only 30% helped. But after fans reflected on loving soccer, something they had in common with the fans of the rival team, 70% helped the injured fan of the rival team. The bottom line is that focusing on similarities appears to
Purposeful Palm series: Work less for democracy
When I gazed at the palm outside my office window searching for inspiration, it offered the above advice. Together we can ensure that all Americans with the right to vote have a safe opportunity to do so. Here are several organizations that offer volunteer opportunities to support a fair and peaceful election, including from wherever we are sheltered in place: Civic Alliance, a non-partisan group of businesses building a future where everyone participates in shaping our country, has opportunities for businesses large and small to do good. Join Target, Kenneth Cole, SAP, HandsOn Connect and hundreds of other businesses. Frontline Election Defenders, an alliance of progressive organizations such as the Working Families Party and the Movement for Black Lives, has an Election Defenders campaign with several roles we can play on election
Purposeful Palm series: Buy good
As you might remember, last week’s tip for a meaningful workweek from the Purposeful Palm was to forgo meat. My favorite reader response was from Ernesto: “No way, Bea. I love parrilla [bar-b-q]! Try to get your little plant to give me some other advice.” After the Palm stopped chuckling, it agreed to stay away from suggesting a culinary sacrifice this week. Thus, the above tip on something close to the opposite: Shopping! Here are resources to help you find black-owned businesses: The Buy From A Black Woman Directory New York Magazine’s 180 Black-Owned Businesses to Support The Black-Owned Market Etsy’s Black Owned Shops Black Enterprise’s Top 100 list Bank Black Bon Appetit’s list of Black-owned Restaurants A list of 181 Black-owned businesses across the United States in many different
Purposeful Palm series: Exchange beef for your children’s future home
When I recently looked at the smoke-shrouded palm outside my California office wondering what to do about the raging global wildfires, it offered the above suggestion. Try it out and see how you feel!
Purposeful Palm series: Shine the limelight on others
When I stared at the Purposeful Palm outside my office window this week, it suggested we help with the other pandemic afflicting us: social isolation. In our work-at-home reality, many of our colleagues feel as though they have faded into the background, neither heard nor seen. The resulting loneliness can be crippling. The above tip can help reduce their suffering. Amazingly, research shows that if we are the ones suffering from social isolation, doing this good deed helps us as well.
Purposeful Palm series: Save the world while you eat lunch
Above is the advice the palm outside my office window provided when I pondered how people could find time to do good at work during these demanding times. Hope it helps!
Purposeful Palm series: Gain meaning through gratitude
I spend a lot of time gazing out my office window at a palm tree wondering how to ignite a sense of purpose in whatever work team I’m trying to help. It turns out the tall palm often has surprisingly helpful, simple and broadly applicable ideas. Above is one. The Purposeful Palm’s first tip might take no more than five minutes and be ridiculously simple but make no mistake: It will bring more joy to its beneficiaries than we likely know. Furthermore, there is evidence that it’s sufficiently meaningful to boost the happiness of those doing the good deed—for days or even weeks!